Friday, December 21, 2012

Christmas Letter 2012


Well, here we are again, at the end of the year.  We look back to the busy events of the last 12 months and look ahead to another year of ups and downs.  I can barely remember last Christmas or winter and somehow I have been too busy to do much scrapbooking or print photos (I know, this seems impossible) but I’ll pick up the family story in the spring.
Katrina finished her first year at UBC Okanagan and got through a lot of those required courses that make her wonder “why” (as in “why am I taking this?”) but also progressing in her desired major, French.  She travelled to Sherbrooke, Quebec for 5 weeks of university French immersion and learned a great deal in French as well as about dorm life.  This fall she was back at UBCO with another puzzling courseload (French, Anthropology, Psychology, and Cultural Studies), some courses more useful than others.
I’m not quite sure what happened to my sons this year, but they appear to have pulled up their academic socks and began bringing home A’s in courses like Physics 11 and PreCalculus.  They were hired to do clean-up in March at the mill where Marcel works and worked almost every Saturday from March through October.  They also both passed their “N” driving tests in August, so they can drive on their own without a parent, but with only 1 non-family member in the vehicle.
Anthony continues to enjoy art classes.  He has more responsibility in Air Cadets this year, and was pictured on the front page of the newspaper after Remembrance Day for his part in the ceremonies at Coldstream Cenotaph.  He purchased a car this fall and is enjoying his “freedom” but also has discovered the cost of gasoline and the ups and downs of working as a casual … just when you think you have steady work, you don’t get called for a while.  He begins his Aircraft Mechanics apprenticeship this February.
Bronson’s activities are about the same as last year … drum lessons (he played in a public concert put on by Wentworth Music in June), working out at the gym and youth group.  He also is carrying a full course load and working very hard in his grade 12 courses (English, PreCalculus, History, and Chemistry) this semester.  He has applied to UBC to enter the computer science field.
Karen’s life was even busier this year:  substitute teaching, secretarial work for 2 non-profit groups, and a full summer of work (May through September) at O’Keefe Ranch, as well as the usual round of church activities. The annual camping trip was complicated by caterpillars (shiver!) but September saw a “great escape” to Langley and Trinity Western University’s 50th anniversary celebrations.
Marcel continued with Tolko in maintenance as a millwright.  It was interesting to see how much more he and the boys communicated once they started working Saturdays at the mill.  He enjoyed fishing throughout the summer and went on a three-day trip where he caught a salmon which was over 20 pounds.
Marcel’s mom has had a tough year, which has really increased the amount of care she has needed from us.  She had cataract surgery in the summer, and the after-care involved us putting drops in the affected eye hourly for over 3 weeks, then reducing to 3 times a day, twice a day, once a day … and finally no more drops (or salve).  Unfortunately, in September, she fell at home (propelled by a mighty sneeze) and broke her left wrist and thumb.   Wearing a cast made everything complicated and every doctor visit was preceded by helping her to dress and tie her shoes.  The cast finally came off and a physiotherapist has been coming to the house to help her with exercises.  But lest we get too complacent, she has also been diagnosed with breast cancer and has surgery scheduled before Christmas.
But we don’t want to end the letter on a sad note … we have one more piece of news.  At the end of November, Marcel and I had a visit from Katrina’s boyfriend, Tyler Young, who asked for her hand in marriage.  We gave him our blessing, then waited two long days until he took her up to Silver Star and asked her to marry him.  She said YES and is now sporting a lovely diamond on her left hand.  Wedding plans have us circling July 20, 2013 on our new calendar and looking up all manner of things on the Internet … wedding timelines, flowers, bridesmaid dresses, locations … today was fun as she tried on my wedding dress and those of my mother and aunt (did they fit?  Somewhat. Would she wear them? We’ll see).
So 2013 looks like a year of formal wear … with the boys graduating in June and the wedding in July.  Next year, perhaps I’ll just send photos and not write a letter (oh no, don’t tell me you’re counting on reading all about it! Okay, I’ll write … I’m sure I’ll recover by December). 
May you enjoy all of the blessings of Christmas.

With love from

Marcel, Karen, Katrina, Anthony, and Bronson
(as well as Muffin the cat, who is keeping me company)

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